Saturday, January 6, 2018

Bahamas Trip 2018

For Christmas, the children were all given "experiences" from Santa.  The boys received the gift of cruising to the Bahamas.  This is a trip that they have never done before AND it is one that Ryan and I have not done in 19 years - we sailed exactly 19 years ago together to celebrate our 1st wedding anniversary.  Chapman, because she is just so little still, was added a bit late to the reservation and, in Chapman form, she took on the ship like it was everyday life for her!
 The boys were stoked.  So excited AND they could not wait to see what life at sea was like!  We boarded the ship and quickly made our way around to learn the important stops like the all-you-can-eat-buffet 24/7 AND the theaters.  Then we did our "muster drill" - I was thrilled that life jackets are no longer a necessity for this event! - and we were off!
 This little beauty departed Port Canaveral and it wasn't long before she started rocking and rolling....we were still all smiles at this point so we grabbed our SeaPasses and made our way to our first night of dinner.  We met the nicest family - three teenage girls and their parents - from Michigan.  We enjoyed our time with them each night hearing about their adventures from the day.  But on this first night, the dad looked super pale and the girls were feeling a bit weak....the table behind us - well, the dad went to fetch Seabands for his two children who were doubled over and not feeling well and Ryan followed suit because at this point we were all feeling a bit woozy! By the end of dinner, the dad had left, one of the daughters had left, the table behind us had left....people were falling out all over and the SeaBands were all.sold.out.  No more to be had on the ship!  
 The night was long and bumpy, scenarios of the Titanic were flashing through my head as we were tossed from side to side....trashcans and dashes of Zofran became our best friends!  Thankfully, we awoke to a bright, sunny sky and a boat that was still.  Phew.  With an afternoon snorkeling excursion on the books, we chose to walk off of the ship and shop around the port for a bit before lunch.
 Senor Frogs is always a fun stop for photos....sorry Colin, a few more years even though SeƱor says you are tall enough for a taste.  The locals were out hustling their items....the basket weaving is intense and very pretty....and the coconuts with all sorts of drinks looked like a fun little treat.
 Chapman loved the frog statues and the attention she received from the locals asking to braid her little hair! 
I snapped a quick pic of the boys and wished them all well on their snorkeling adventure and headed back to the ship with visions of Chapman taking a nap while I enjoyed my latest People magazine on deck in the sun with a little island music in the background.  It was the perfect plan....
 back to the room I went, collected my things and off to the pool deck I went - mind you, I was in sweats due to the chill in the air but still.  As I rounded the corner, a head-dropped Pryce came up the staircase....and then Colin and then Ryan.  None looked thrilled.  Their snorkeling excursion had been cancelled due to inclement weather.  **If we did not have a full understanding of the word "inclement" at this time, we would by the end of the trip**
 Determined to not let this get us down, we quickly came up with Plan B.  Plan B was grab a cab to a local beach and enjoy the afternoon in the sand and surf.  Off the boat we trekked....we found a cab and off we went.  The skies were a bit gray and the wind was picking up BUT our weather app said it would pass quickly and the sun would shine again!  Ha.  We arrived at the beach, got out of the cab only to be greeted by the longest line of people ever who were waiting to take a cab back to the boat....but we were determined all would be well so we trucked forward, paid to go to the beach and the rain began as they closed the beach - did I mention we paid to go to this closed beach?  hahaha!  But we were determined to enjoy....rain and freezing temps and all!  So, we huddled under this little tiki hut bar....
wrapped ourselves in the towels from the ship and proceeded to sit and watch the storm.  We prayed the wind would stop, the rain would cease and the sun would shine....I honestly just wanted the boys to be able to put their feet in the sand and water.  But that was not to be and soon it was time to leave and get back to the ship. 
 Chapman was a trooper all day....she didn't complain once and was thrilled to be back on the boat and find toys to play with in her little window spot.  The ship had a toy bank we could borrow different toys from for her - it was a lifesaver!  
 She also found the little towel creatures to be great fun as well!  We all laughed at these each night....as usual, our room attendants were amazing!  We had a great night....dinner was fun with our new friends - Michigan and Georgia are two totally different places so them telling us stories about snowmobiling led to us telling the stories about atv-ing - ha!  We went to a comedy show - El Gaucho was hilarious!  The boys explored the boat until the wee hours while we went back to our room to get some rest.  The sailing was SO smooth - you could not even feel the boat moving!  AND, we were all thrilled that we were able to schedule a seahorse sail and snorkel excursion for our next day in Nassau!  
 Around 5:00am I awoke to this weird sound outside of our window....I had no idea what it could possibly be but it was persistent allowed for me to drift in and out of sleep for the next few hours due to its odd noise.  The boys and Ryan left for an early breakfast so they could go on their excursion.  Chapman, we are learning, is a night owl and loves to sleep in after her late nights, lol.  So, with her sleeping next to me, I laid there listening to her breathe and the odd sound outside of our window, still unsure as to what it was.  In a bit, the loud speaker came on to announce that snorkeling excursions for the day had been cancelled due to "inclement" weather....ugh.  Not too long after, the boys and Ryan walked in, Chapman awoke and I took a look outside of our window only to find sunny skies and a tug boat driving into the side of our boat!  Yep, the tug boat had the sole responsibility to keep us docked and not let us drift away from our dock - wow - the winds were fierce!  So there the tug boat sat, driving into our boat for the next 5 hours as we stayed docked.  
I was so bummed for the boys. The one thing they had asked to do wasn't going to happen on this trip.  And, they had not even had the opportunity to put their feet in the sand much less the water.  And, it was freezing.  And you had to hold onto your head of hair due to the wind....it was blowing steadily at 30mph.  BUT, we were determined that this was not going to get us down so off the boat we went to explore the famed Nassau straw market.  On our walk over, Colin braved taking a pic of the rough seas and took a splash to his body as a result - he never got to actually get in the Caribbean waters BUT he did get splashed!  
We had the most fun bargaining with the locals....it was as if we were in a tropical China.  Ryan and Pryce scored some Oakley sunglasses so both were all smiles....and Colin was thrilled with his splash from the sea so all was well in our world.  And we were together.  I kept telling the boys that this trip's purpose was to make memories and though the memories weren't exactly what I had in mind, they were still memories we would carry for years to come!  And they were happy....they had fun just doing their own thing...eating when and what they wanted and exploring.  
 Back on the boat, we found Johnny Rockets and had a burger and some great onion rings while watching a little belly flopping competition underway at the pool....yowsers, I know that had to have hurt! Though it was frigid out, and the pools were a no-go for all onboard, Ryan and I found a comfy seat by the windows and settled in for an afternoon of sailing the high seas while the boys played shuffle board and basketball about the ship.  
 The afternoon at sea was beautiful.  
 We watched as the sun set out at sea....
 it was beautiful and we were so thankful for these images!
 Our last night of dining was casual night.  Pryce purchased this tropical shirt long before he even knew of a cruise in his future.  
 Dinner was fun....a little dancing, a little chatting, a little bittersweet with the goodbyes....
following dinner, we took on a gameshow with the boys and then made our way to our rooms for a late night of packing and preparing for our early morning departure.
 Once again, the night was ROUGH....the seas picked up a bit late in the evening and due to "inclement" weather, we arrived two hours late into our port the following morning.  No worries here though, because our little night owl was still resting peacefully and rest looks good on her!
 We said our goodbyes to our rooms....we had adjoining rooms but the adjoining doors could not open due to the beds being in front of them???? Kind of weird but the boys were fine with that!  They had their own little cabin and we used the cabin phones and knocking on the walls to communicate with them!
 We took a few last looks at the Christmas decor about the ship....a gingerbread village made from cardboard, pretty cool.
 and we sat in the lounge and talked a bit about our favorite moments on the ship and what we were going to miss most!  
 And we talked a good bit about how we will do this trip again but we would be sure to go to the Bahamas instead of Alaska, ha!  We discussed things we had learned....like, we need to have a bag for off island adventures....Ryan sported a Matilda Jane Clothing tote this trip, lol.  He is such a good sport!
 So thankful for this trip, for my boys, for Ryan and my sweet little Chapman. 
 Until next time....


Sunday, December 31, 2017

Summing up 2017

In this season of thanks, I have spent many hours pondering over the last year.  There have been some very overwhelming moments, some extremely amazing moments, some hard moments, some joy-filled moments and everything in between.  It is a constant ride in motion in our home....one moment I am on the floor laughing because one of our children has just cracked me up and the next moment I am screeching at one of our children to pick up this or clean up that.  For this, I am thankful.  I have been given the amazing privilege to care for and mother SIX beautifully made children.  They are all my dream come true.  The icing on the cake is Ryan.  He makes it all possible and provides for us without one complaint.  He works hard with little daily thanks.  He is the rock....the one we all go to, the one we all lean on. For him, I am thankful.  My job.  This time last year, a friend approached me and asked if I would be interested in "taking over" her business, her clientele with Matilda Jane Clothing.  I was honored.  I love MJC.  My girls have been living the Matilda Jane way since 2011 and we haven't looked back.  The bonus?  I now know the goodness MJC provides for adult women as well!  It's lovely and so soft and comfortable and fresh all in one wear!  With this came adjustments....time management adjustments, learning to say "No" when needed, adjusting our family time on weekends/trips in order to grow together - time is precious and being intentional on spending quality family time together is so rewarding.  For this, I am thankful.  This year has brought school into our picture in a way that has not been present in our home in many, many years.  For the first time in 8 years, my children are all in school or preschool.  Yes, it leads to a lot of driving, but driving means having moments alone with a child to chat which I will take any day!  Yes, it leads to keeping track of six different classrooms, schedules, lunches, school events....it's busy and I won't dare claim that I have managed to keep it all together - truth is, I haven't but my army has - my carpool friends, my friends who see my child without the t-shirt I was supposed to order yet they give her one anyway....yes, the army has been good to us.  For them, we are thankful. To our drs., surgeons, specialists, and orthodontist....oh how thankful we are for them.  Our orthodontist deserves a special medal when he sees one of our girls....he is so patient and so empathetic.  For all of those who medically care for our children, we are thankful.
2017 has been a year of growth for the Drafts.  It has been a year of change, good change, and learning.  It's been amazing, beautiful, trying, and so rewarding!  THANKFUL would be my word that sums up this year....I am oh so thankful for my family, for grace, for friends, for health, for love and for opportunities! Here's to 2018....

Christmas 2017

Hooray for Christmas morning AND all agreeing that a 7:00am wake-up was in everyone's best interest!  In years past, wake-up time has been as early as 6:00am - eek!  It's always a topic of discussion on Christmas Eve but this year the kiddos agreed and 7:00am it was!  They all sleep in the loft together on Christmas Eve (minus Chapman - she just isn't quite ready to leave her mommy's side) and as they awoke one by one, we could hear the early morning chatter amongst them.  At 7:00am sharp, the squeals began and we all met on the stairs for the Christmas morning pic.  Again, minus Chapman who slept in until 9:00am!
 We try to keep Christmas simple - one need, one want, one surprise, and something to read - all from Santa.  Santa brought lots of clothes....
 a four wheeled jewel for littles....
 a two-wheeled jewel for this kiddo....
 Maddox has never had her very own bike - she is our child who gets everything second-hand....nothing at all wrong with that but everyone needs a new bike at some point in their lives!
 Chapman finally awoke and was outside stat to try out the new car with Maryn and her mermaid....no shoes AND it was less than 30 degrees!  Yikes.  She didn't last too long!
 Then the gift opening began....Pryce received lights for the "man cave" and he was shocked....
 MK asked for all things panda so she was thrilled to see one appear in a gift....
 Colin had a run in with an xbox controller so a new one was needed....
 clothing AND cow calendars make for great boy gifts....food and the latest styles, that is how boys roll!
 Chapman was all about tearing into gifts....no time to waste, she needed to know what was inside so if that meant tearing a box, she tore the box!
 Fingerlings....admittedly so, the girls didn't even ask for these BUT I thought they were just too cute!  
 We like to take Christmas Day little by little....
 we see Santa, we open a gift or two....
 we play, we eat....
 and then we repeat!
 Christmas Day is the one day of the year where we are all under one roof, all happily hanging out, no one asking to go anywhere, no expectations....
 it's just fun and so good to be together!
 Little Chapman loved her new dolls....the hair is the best part always!
 Maddox received a pair of play glasses and she honestly hasn't taken them off since!  I have told her many times since this day that if she ever needs to wear glasses, she is going to be the most beautiful child in eyewear ever!  
 Chapman cooked for everyone all day on her new grill....
 Maddox totally missed the cues for activities throughout the day because she was listening to her new Jojo headphones....
 Maryn is at the perfect age....she is so excited to open gifts and no matter what is in the box, she is happy!
 Pryce is always enthusiastic....always.  I hope he always has this spirit about him.
 Maddox could not wait to use her new pottery wheel....while I prepared the kitchen for our next meal, she happily created a jewelry holder for me.
 The "man cave" lights were a hit! 
 Our living room for the better part of the day....a complete mess yet full of such joy!  Ryan spent his day building, adding batteries, building more....
 and when the building wasn't going on, the girls were playing....I love this pic, Maryn in her dress-up clothes, Maddox in her new boots and glasses! 
 For the grand finale, a game of Minute to Win It was in store.....
 the children were each given a task....
 when the task was completed in under one minute, they were given a clue.
 Each clue was a puzzle piece....
 the children loved this!  Pryce definitely had the hardest challenge - shooting cups from the table with rubber bands.  It sounded so easy yet it was a bit of a challenge....Maryn chose to serenade us with her new harmonica during this task.
 Pretty sure Colin had the funniest task....
 he had two plates....one plate had vaseline on it....without using his hands, he had to put vaseline on his nose...
 then he had to pic up cotton balls from the bowl using only his vaselined nose and place them on the clean plate....he had to do 5 in one minute....he did 10!
 The children used their clues to solve the puzzle.  Once the puzzle was complete, they were able to read it and use the clues given within it to find their Christmas gift from us.  Each year, they are given one gift to all of them from us....it is a list of 12 events that we will do as a family throughout the year - the idea is that we will do one event each month.  This year includes everything from bowling to a trip to California and everything in between!  
 When all was said and done, our children could be found like this....
 they were a bunch of sleepy heads when it was all said and done!
Even Finley had a great, tiring day!
Merry Christmas!