Thursday, March 19, 2015

Social Etiquette

Pryce and his friend, Kayley, participated in their first "Social, Inc." event.
For four weeks, they attended classes together to learn social manners - all the ins and outs of manners!  
 These two have been friends since their Kindergarten days and they are looking forward to beginning Social in the Fall together and dancing the nights away!  
This guy continues to grow up!  We are so thankful for the young man he is becoming!

Sunday, March 8, 2015

A Little Catch Up


MK will be a Fairy Sprite in the upcoming ballet the Roar of Love.
She is soooo excited!  The Fairy Sprites get to do ballet and scream and do cartwheels all in one scene!
 Maddox and her "sister friend" Brooklyn....these two are the best of buddies and we just love watching them grow together!
 The deer continue to visit our backyard.  We love watching to see just how far into the yard they will come before getting spooked and taking off back into the woods.  
 Miss Maddox got a hair cut!  Short hair suits her mighty personality and we love her new look!
 However, I about died as I watched her getting the hair lobbed off!  That's a lot of hair!!!
 The Kenney Family joined us for dinner recently.....the Kenneys were some of our very first friends and we love their friendship!  
 Speaking of the Kenneys.....during dinner, this picture appeared!  Pryce and Jules, so very sweet!  I remember Pryce used to tell Julia all the time how nice her hair looked!
 The weather here has been nice for a few days!  So nice that Colin decided schooling on the porch was the way to go!
 Miss Maryn embraced the weather as well....
 she was a kicking machine and had so much fun playing ball with us.
 This baby girl is precious!  Most who meet her just want to squeeze her!  The cuteness is too much!
 And she is a sweet one too!  Of course I always ask her who loves her and she will say, "Mommy!" in the sweetest voice ever!
 Maddox is never at a loss for finding something to wear.....she loves to dress-up!  
 It's that time of year again!  Bruster's Pajama Day!
 We all headed out in our pjs and indulged in a free waffle cone filled with some ice cream goodness!  Yummo!

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Happy Fifteen Years, Colin!

And just like that, he is 15 years old!  The night before his birthday, I kept telling Ryan about that night 15 years ago.....how we went to our last baby shower, how we were prayed over, how I had this horrendous, sudden pain just as we were leaving the baby shower, how we drove to our home thinking I had a bladder infection, how we called the doctor and they told me to drink water, how we decided to go to the hospital without unloading the first gift from our car, how Ryan said, "I am just going to get your toothbrush and your pillow, just in case"....how they calmly stated that I was in labor and there was no turning back now!  I will never forget the nurse going to all the trouble to make Ryan's bed in the hospital room thinking we would be settling in for the night.  Little did we all know that our Colin would make his grand entrance just four hours later!  
 I had to share with Colin how I stared at him the first day and just could not believe that my dream of being a mother had come true!  I also told him how the nurses called several times from the nursery during our stay to let us know that they would be bringing him to our room - he was being a bit disruptive in the nursery and waking the other babies!  Ha!  It was the beginning of his no need for sleep!
 At fifteen, gifts are secondary to how you celebrate your special day!  Thankfully, the boys worked extra hard to get ahead so we could take a day off from school.  We began with scones - Colin's favorite breakfast treat and then we were off to play racquetball.  
 Though they had read up on how to play the game, there were a few minor glitches in their game.  One being that they lost their ball to the vent.....the vent that is located next to the ceiling:0
 Let's suffice it to say that I just love birthdays....so, I could not let the day go by without having some of Colin's favorite friends over to celebrate with him.  A little Ultimate coupled with Mafia and some cookie cake with ice cream equalled a fabulous afternoon.  
 We said goodbye to everyone and scooted out the door for a special dinner at Garlic Clove, Colin's request!  Our children have grown-up going there to celebrate special days, it's a tradition of sorts.  
 The one thing Colin asked for the entire day was to open his gifts at dinner.  So, gifts at dinner we had!
 Admittedly so, I miss the younger days with our boys and gifts.  Gone are the days of trucks and noisy toys and in are the "I just want money for my mission trip and I need socks" days - eeekkk!!!  Again, I am a birthday person so there has to be a few gifts!  
Fifteen and counting! I love this guy so much!  I remember rocking him when he was just a few weeks old and thinking he would never grow up!  I could wrap my thumb and index finger around his little legs, he was tiny!  And here he is, 15 years later.  
Our first son, first child, aka "the experiment."
This year he continues to homeschool, an adventure we began when he entered into the 4th grade!
He stays busy with basketball, friends, church, school, drums, listening to and creating music, Ultimate,  eating and eating more!  He is a teenager in every sense of the word.  He wants to sleep later, stay up later, eat all the time, and repeat.  He is his mother's child and would likely forget his head if it were not attached to him....he is notorious for forgetting his shoes!  He adores Maryn and tolerates MK and Maddox - his love for them is 100% yet there is no gushing over those two due to their age-appropriate antics.  Maryn, on the other hand, had him at the word hello and he happily obliges when she asks him for a hug and/or a kiss.  It is precious!
He has big dreams that involve fancy cars and even fancier homes.  He would like to be a pharmacist or possibly a computer science guru.  We tell him all the time that law should be a consideration....he debates well and often has valid points.
We cherish the time that we have with this guy!  We are so thankful for him and his humor that brings joy to us daily!  

Monday, February 23, 2015

Happy Chinese New Year 2015

Happy Year of the Goat/Sheep/Ram!  
The girls and I had a little hair playing time....
and nail painting time....
so we took advantage of being all dressed up and had a little photo session....
So thankful for MK!  She is my biggest helper with Maryn and loves every minute of it!
Maddox is our comic relief....love her quick wit!
And this little one keeps us all on our toes!  She is our fast moving, eager eating, baby girl!  
After our playing time, we all met up with our friends who have adopted from China.  Such a fun evening!  We had our families who always join us, families who are just home from China, and families who are in the process.....all in all, we had 19 families and 92 people!  Amazing!  
We stepped it up a notch and did our very own dragon dance....our little Maryn was one unhappy camper!  She is not a fan of masks or anything of the sort!
The children all enjoyed a few sparklers....
and in keeping tradition, we sent a lantern into the air - always a hit!  
So thankful for the time we get with these families! Our family cherishes our adoption gatherings!


Saturday, February 21, 2015

Happy Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day was a bit different for us this year!  We awoke and began our day supporting our friends at the Trot To Adopt.  The Trot helped us raise funds to bring Maryn home and is a very successful way for families to raise money and adoption awareness in our community. 
After our running jaunt, the boys were off to battle - gone are the all day Nerf war games, now we have air soft wars!  It's bigger, better and it hurts!  Fabulous for these boys and their friends!
Meanwhile, the two big girls went to play putt-putt with their daddy while Maryn and I had a bit of girl time....truth be told, she napped, I worked!  
In years past, I have always cooked a big dinner on Valentine's Day and we have all been together.  Staying true to the season of life we are in, the boys had pizza with friends while we took the girls for Chinese.  
And then our guys came home and this mama was feeling full again.....I love for us all to be together!
Of course, "Cupid" had to come with a few surprises....
and brownie sundaes were the treat of the day! 
Maddox was all in....she yelled, "Thank you for the love day!"

Monday, February 16, 2015

A Day of Play

When the going gets too busy, the busy needs to rest.....
 and this mama needs some time with her kiddos....
 not the everyday-do-your-work-go-to-your-activity time.....
 some play time!  So we all packed up and headed to the park.....
 the weather was perfect, the park was all ours, everyone was all smiles and it made me feel whole!  
 Because no park day is complete without ice cream, we decided a Bruster's ice cream lunch would be best!  Maddox exclaimed, "Oh, I LOVE summer!"  Nevermind that it was 60 degrees out and we are in the month of February!  
 Later that evening, the boys and I joined some friends for a night of Winter Jam....
the auditorium was full, sold-out, to an audience there to listen to a line-up of Christian bands!  And my boys, along with their friends, worshipped all night long!  Perfect evening with my favorite guys! 

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Behind The Scenes

We will call this the behind the scenes tour.....

China Hosting program - this summer, our family will bring a little one into our home for 4ish weeks from China.  He/she will be available for adoption.  Our job, our mission, will be to find this little one a forever home!  We hope to know a face early next week!

Mission trip to China - Pryce and I will be returning to China in November for a 10 day mission trip.  We will be with a team of volunteers loving on kiddos in an orphanage in Shaanxi.  I believe this trip will be very eye opening to both of us.  We have had the opportunity to visit our girls' orphanages yet each time has been more of a sightseeing tour versus a real-life tour of how orphans in China spend their days.  We are both looking forward to ministering to the nannies and children!

"My baby girl".....while visiting Maryn's orphanage last summer, we met a 10 month old baby girl.  We took pictures and loved on her for the few moments that we were allowed with her.  There is an "angel" in Maryn's orphanage, an American volunteer.  I contacted her several months after we arrived home to find out how the baby was doing and asked specifically for her Chinese name so that we could look for her file with our agency.  All the while, I was speaking with some dear friends about adoption. They have always wanted to adopt.  I showed them my baby girl's picture and they were sold!  They began their paper chase immediately to bring her home....we found her file, they requested it, they accepted her referral and now they are in the midst of madness as they feverishly press forward in completing all necessary paperwork to bring her home!  In less than six months, Maryn will have a friend from her orphanage living here with her, going to church with her, homeschooling with her....and the best part?  The baby's big sister is Maddox's "sister friend" aka best friend!  They just love each other and we love being on this journey with their family!

Consignment sale.....twice a year I do a boutique consignment sale to raise funds for adopting families.  I love doing this sale!  Having people in my home, asking questions about adoption and sharing our story with them makes my heart happy!

Our life....Maryn's adoption opened my eyes to the fact that our family is growing up.  Gone are the days when we could all enjoy an activity together.  With a 14 year old, a 12 year old, an 8 year old, a 5 year old and a 2 year old, game nights and movies are a thing of the past.  The 14 year old isn't up for watching Barney and the 2 year old just wants to make a mess of the cards or board in our games.  Sigh.  This has been and continues to be our biggest adjustment as a family of 7.  And everyone is home this year.....I have a high schooler, a middle schooler, an elementary schooler, a pre-schooler and a toddler all under my roof 24/7.  Trying to wrap my head around Algebra 2 while telling the toddler not to eat food off the floor, well, it leaves me overwhelmed at times.  Being transparent here, it's realness in our life.  Would we change anything?  Absolutely NOT.  It's a season to embrace and grow in but one that I struggle with because I do not like change....the mommy in me wants to keep them all young in a world of easy!