Yesterday MK was watching a Disney show on tv for a moment while I finished up some work. She looked at me and said, "Hey, mom, I think that girl is China. She is small." Because I really was busy, I didn't say much to her other than acknowledge that she was talking. However, I knew what she meant. Later, we were out running errands and I said, "MK if someone is born in China then they are Chinese." Her response? "Yes, I know." So I said, "You were born in China but you live in America, so you are Chinese American." MK said, "Yeah, and I speak English. That is why I am American. Mom, there is this boy in my class who looks English but he speaks Spanish. I don't know what he is!"

Shactaw

Meet Shactaw.

We found this little guy on the way home from taking MK to her first day of school. He was in the middle of the road and, in our opinion, was looking at a tragic end to life without our help. So, we scooped him up - with the intention of leaving him safely on the side of the road - and before I knew it, both boys were out of the van, turtle in hand, running home and discussing what to feed him and where to keep him. In a mere split second, our goal to merely save the turtle turned into a "lets keep the turtle and build him a nice little home." I think this decision was made when I was reminiscing about my pet turtle that I once had as a child. The boys decided on a name - he was named after the two tribes that the boys will participate in next year at camp - they found him a home, added some grass, fed him some apples and the rest is, well, history.....

until yesterday. Yesterday we convinced the guys that it was really not a good thing to keep Shactaw, he needed to be in his own element. So with the turtle in hand,......

and the much desired GERM-X in tow.....

we headed out on a little walk through the neighborhood to one our favorite little hangouts - the pond.

We were so proud of Pryce. This kiddo has the heart of gold. Tender. And he hates saying goodbye.

The kiddos wanted one last photo with our turtle treasure.....

and within minutes of putting the little guy down, he was gone.

In Maddox news.....she is doing magnificent! We all just continue to love her to pieces and can't believe that it has almost been SIX months of forever with her.

MK is a true girl from the inside out. She is full of laughter and smiles. She is all things shiny and pink - the shinier and pinker the better. She is a talkative little one. A thinker. She is sensitive. She is caring. She LOVES shoes. And, sigh, she has the attitude. It is innate. No other way to put it. Over the weekend we spotted her rolling her eyes when she was asked to do something that was not on her radar. When we asked her to not roll her eyes, she responded, "Oh, I wasn't. I was just looking up." Ah, yes, and in true girl fashion, she has an answer for everything.

S.E.A.B.R.O.O.K.

With the beginning of our school year looming, we chose to take one last hiatus to Seabrook Island. With the sun high in the sky and the ocean glistening while waves crashed continuously, we made our through the sand and enjoyed three days of nothing but swimming, eating, playing and catching up with friends.

Skimboarding was a hit with the "bigs".....

there were some injuries for these guys and that had us moms thinking a different sport would be good:)

Thankfully, the "littles" were quite content to keep busy in the sand or on a boogie board.....

Maddox took in a lot of quality time with her friend Julia.....

and when she wasn't busy with Julia, she was napping poolside or beachside.....difficult life :)

The "bigs"....

and the "littles" minus one.

Another great week at Seabrook....oh, how we will think of these good times when our noses are pressed inside school books this week!

First Day of School for MK

Today was a much anticipated day for MK! For MONTHS she has asked, "Now, is today when I get to go to Ms. Cathy's class?" And my response has been, "No, we have to go to China first and then you can go to Ms. Cathy's class...." or "After we go to the beach you can go to Ms. Cathy's class...." or "First you have to go to ballet camp and then you can go to Ms. Cathy's..."

Last night before bed, we picked out her special outfit for her special day.....and we packed up her lunch just as she asked.....and we prayed for her first day at school.....and she said, "I think I will need to get up super early so that I am not late to Ms. Cathy's class!"....oh, no, being late for Ms. Cathy would not be good.

And so the time arrived, with all children in tow along with their many electronic devices for pics, and we made our first walk into school for the 2011-2012 school year.....and MK FINALLY is in Ms. Cathy's Pre-K class....

This pic says it all....she was soooo very excited to arrive. There were no tears. No looking back. Pure joy!

She was given a few instructions on her morning routine.....

and then came the big hug and welcome from Ms. Cathy! You see, Cathy played a role in MK's coming home. She and her family will always be dear to us. It was Cathy who held my hand when I miscarried the first time - we barely knew one another, little did we know what God's plan was. It was Cathy that just happened to mention her husband's cousin who was born with a cleft lip and palate - I didn't even know what this was until this conversation. It is always Cathy who comes to my rescue with scripture to read. It was Cathy who cared for our little Finley when we traveled to get MK - she even set Fin up with his own little lamp in our garage. Cathy is just one of those people that everyone should have in their lives, truly one of a kind! So glad to see MK in her class and we are looking forward to a great pre-k year!

Dedication

Surrounded by the people who love her the most, Maddox Ren was dedicated at our evening church service on Sunday. She was all smiles!

The service was so sweet. And to make it sweeter, two other families with children from China AND who are in our group of ten that meets frequently, were a part of the service as well - so wish I had taken a picture!

Five months of forever.

Maddox is happy. Giggly. Shy. Sweet. Jealous. Affectionate. Comfortable.

Maddox loves to dance. Climb. Feed her baby. Swing. Swim. Read books. Go outside.

Maddox can feed herself. Put clothes on and take them off, even if they are not hers :) Go up and down stairs. Jump. Do puzzles. Go to sleep on her own.

Maddox says "no, no!" "ball" "milk" "hi" "hello" "bye" "ma ma" "wow" "oh no" "uh oh" "quack quack" "meow"

She receives speech therapy once a week in our home and we will increase this to two times a week in September. She will not go peacefully into a nursery setting so we are taking baby steps to get her used to this environment. She did make the 20lb mark this past week - yay! And, we know this because she was sick - boo! All better now though.

Our adjustment to a family of six has been quite comical. Often, we find ourselves still saying "Table for 5" or "We have 3 children." And of course it has been five months and we STILL don't get the diaper bag packed accordingly - it either has diapers/wipes OR it has snacks, never does it have all of the above :) MK is doing great in her role of big sister. Her biggest challenge is the behavior of her little sister - little sister, as sweet as she is, can be a jealous little soul and she will push or hit MK. We continue to work through this. Thankfully, MK just takes it all in stride and doesn't retaliate. The boys are the boys - older, helpful, silly, fun and they LOVE having two sisters. They will go from playing baseball together to playing a board game with MK to watching Barney with Maddox. Ryan and I are just taking it all in - loving these days with our fab four!